Suggestions for setup with all new componets and concerns

I would use an Android head unit. They have low power consumption when ignition off and boot relatively fast. Only issue with them is that most do not support normal Bluetooth as they have custom made Bluetooth stack for hands free operation.

As for OBD2 adapters, we recommend OBDLink:

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